Think about something that you have continuously done that has only caused you irritation, or heartache, insert whatever you are feeling, and remove it tonight. Make a distinct decision to say I am no longer chained to INSERT ACTION.
It's a time for new beginnings and quite literally shining light on issues and releasing them during this time is not only a powerful way to start a fresh cycle but important for personal growth.
I will sage you and your house and your shoes and your life and the World if it's going to help people calm down and treat each other with more respect.