Today Marks 13 Years of Marriage. Here are My Secret to a Lasting Marriage
Thirteen years. That's a long time for anything but, to being in wedlock with someone else, it's something special. There's no secret to marriage that works across the board but here is my main 'marriage hack' that you may consider. It has worked for us for the past 13 years.
Same Bed, Different Blankets
Sleep in the same bed, but use your own set of blankets. We're both nocturnal blanket thieves so when we have our own we're not in a constant struggle trying to steal each others, waking up cold in the middle of the night.
I know others who have their own bedroom. I don't know if I agree with that one. If we had our own room, we may as well be roommates. Besides, I use a cpap from my sleep apnea and need someone to wake me if my mask gets off center and I need someone with good ears to wake me up if I happen to sleep through my alarm.
Again, it's not for everyone but it may be worth trying.